اعترافات آخر سال!

از هفته پیش همین موقع که درس و مشق این ترمم تموم شده دچار انبساط زمانی شدم البته یه سری کارها که همیشه هست اما دلم میخواد یه کاره زنونه بکنم مثلا کیک بپزم یا یه ازغذای جدید درست کنم. احساس میکنم مدتهاست با قسمت زنونه وجودم در تماس نبودم.

این رو داشته باشین تا برگردم...

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دوستان یه راهنمایی بفرمایید ما چطوری پست شماره دار بنویسیم؟ در حالت "الاین رایت" هم شماره که میزنم آخر خط شماره میخوره.
حتی...........

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شرمنده این پست ناقص به دنیا اومد. گفتم بذارمش اینجا به هرحال همه که کامل و بی عیب نیستن!!!!

روانشناسی من و فارسی نوشتن

متوجه شدم که چندینتا مشکل دارم. یکیش اینکه سختمه فارسی بنویسم. البته مسإله غربزده شدن واین حرفها نیست بلکه 90 درصدش تنبلی و از 10 درصد باقی مونده هم 7 درصدش بازم تنبلی و 3 باقی مونده ترس از غلط املایی. ما اصولانا استعدادمون برای غلط املایی بالاست و میترسیم استعدادمون تجسم خارجی پیدا کنه.

دیگه اینکه ما اصولا مشکل زندگی و کلا همه چیز رو جدی گرفتن داریم. شاید حضوراّ اصلا به نظرجدی نیام ولی انگار در تمام این سالها تجربه های نوشتنیم (که خیلی هم محدود بورن) تو مباحث جدی بوده.

دارم فکرمیکنم شاید باید دوتا وبلاگه بشم، یکی برای بهاره جدیه و یکه برای غیر جدیه .....

همین الانم این قسمت جدیم داره غر میزنه که: " که خوب حالا که چی. جدی ننویسی که چی بشه؛ با این انرژی که میخوای بذازی برای فارسی و غیر جدی نوشتن چه کمکی به بشریت میکنی (این "کمک به بشریت" تکیه کلام قسمت جدیست).

خلاصه ما قراره یه تلاشن بکنیم اینجا. خدا به خیر بگذرونه.

Marginal Costs and Benefits of fulltime Motherhood, For Shin

It is a while now that I want to write about the marginal costs and benefits of staying home for your child vs. staying with your child for the period and then being back as a contributing member of your society.

Let’s clear it with an example; I am an architect so I want to make a case for insulating a building.

Here is the scenario, for every unit of better insulation you use in a house you will have proportionate unit of energy savings and thus energy savings will pay back the dollars paid for the insulation. However, as you continue to increase your insulation there is a point –called the tipping point- that the extra insulation will not increase your home energy performance anymore. At this point the cost of extra insulation are wasted as they don’t meet the purpose of increasing performance. In this point you got the maximum insulation for you house and if you want even better performance, you need to spend your money on something else and not the insulation.

So what I want to get from is that, a mother spending time with her child will benefit the child directly, but there is a point –the fulltime motherhood tipping point- that the more time you spent with the child may not benefit the child as it used to be before. In this point, your child may need you less but the society and social environment that the child will be a part of, and be influenced from, will need you more.

I argue a child will be a part of the society and those units of time you contribute to your society (after that tipping point) would benefit your child more. In this case, your work is (indirectly) benefiting your child more in a longer run than you spending the direct time with the child.

I am not sure if I could make myself clear. Does it make sense?
And above all it is about the quality of time spent to nourish the child and not the quantity.

Shin, I have been lazy in writing here, but reading your post today, I realized I want to share this with you and tell you that are an amazing mother, wife, friend, architect and colleague. Don’t worry.

جدیت من و پست مدرنیتی

من برام تشخیص داده شده که دچار جدیت مزمن هستیم وسخت نگرفتن زندگی برام تجویز شده....این اولین تلاشمه...

Better or More

Andre Gorze in Ecology and Freedom argues:
"The link between more and better has now been broken. Better may now mean less. Creating as few needs as possible, satisfiying them with the smallest possible expenditure and materials, energy, and work, and imposing the least possible burden on the environment."


Loblolly House from KieranTimberlake Associates

Search for Answers

My mind is full of questions and it constantly seeks answers. Looking for answers could be very exhaustive.
This part of Richard Norgaard preface for his book Development Betrayed, resonates so much which how I have been feeling recently:

"While my research for coherence has led to fewer and fewer answers, I have become increasingly comfortable without them. In place of answers, I have developed an even greater faith in thinking. More importantly, I better understand the importance of sharing. [...] I do not think any one way of thinking will ever be right. Indeed, right thinking is a wrong concept."

Deep-Ecology

"There is enough in the world for everybody's need, but not enough for anybody's greed."
Mahatma Gandi